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Reflexive and passive verbs: lahem, u lava

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Verbs in -hem and -em are reflexive-passive: lahem "I wash (myself)", quhem "my name is", ulem "I sit down", takohem "I meet (someone)". The action is done to oneself, or the verb is passive: Dyqani hapet në orën tetë — "The shop opens at eight".

Present tense

The endings are -em, -esh, -et, -emi, -eni, -en; after a vowel they take h: -hem, -hesh, -het. These verbs are made from ordinary ones: laj "to wash" → lahem "to wash (oneself)", takoj "to meet" → takohem "to meet (each other)", nis "to start" → nisem "to set off".

personlahemnisem
unëlahemnisem
tilaheshnisesh
ai, ajolahetniset
nelaheminisemi
julaheniniseni
ata, atolahennisen

Aorist: u + the form

The aorist is the particle u + the aorist of the ordinary verb: u lava "I washed", u takuam "we met". Only the "he" form differs — it is the "we" form without its ending: u lamë → u la, u takuam → u takua, u nisëm → u nis (not lau, takoi, nisi). Common ones: u ngrita "I got up", u kthye "he came back", u lodha "I got tired", Çfarë u bë? — "What happened?".

personlahemtakohemnisem
unëu lavau takovau nisa
tiu laveu takoveu nise
ai, ajou lau takuau nis
neu lamëu takuamu nisëm
juu latëu takuatu nisët
ata, atou lanëu takuanu nisën

Other tenses

The imperfect is -esha, -eshe, -ej, with h after a vowel: nisesha, nisej; lahesha, lahej. The perfect takes jam: jam larë, jam nisur (see "The perfect: kam + participle"). The future and the subjunctive are like the present: do të nisem, duhet të nisem. The imperative: Ulu! — "Sit down!", Uluni! — "Sit down!" (pl.), Mos u mërzit! — "Don't be upset!".

The passive: nga

"By whom" in the passive is nga: Kjo shtëpi u ndërtua nga gjyshi im — "This house was built by my grandfather". Often the doer doesn't matter: Si thuhet kjo shqip? — "How do you say this in Albanian?", Këtu flitet anglisht — "English is spoken here".

With short forms: m'u, iu

Më + u = m'u, i + u = iu: më duket — "it seems to me", m'u duk — "it seemed to me", iu duk — "it seemed to him"; m'u kujtua — "I remembered".

Examples

Si quhesh?
What's your name?
Sot u ngrita herët.
Today I got up early.
Ku u njohët?
Where did you meet?
Uluni, ju lutem.
Please sit down.
Si thuhet kjo shqip?
How do you say this in Albanian?

Common mistakes

Dje lava në det.
✓ Dje u lava në det.
"I bathed" is reflexive: u lava; without u it means "I washed (something)".
Ai u takoi me Anën.
✓ Ai u takua me Anën.
In reflexive verbs the "he" form of the aorist is the "we" form without its ending: u takuam → u takua.
Unë quaj Ana.
✓ Unë quhem Ana.
"My name is" is quhem; quaj means "to call (someone something)".
💡 Tip. Verbs in -hem and -em often match reflexive verbs in other languages (to wash oneself, to sit down). But not always: përgjigjem means "I answer". And ju lutem "please" contains one too: lutem — "I ask, I beg".